From a Mishpacha magazine article by Rabbi Ron Yitzchok Eisenman, “Powerless”, 10th October 2012. Found when going through a pile of recipes. If anyone wants me to post the whole article let me know.
Self control is yours forever
How to have self control? An inspiring magazine article
Slimming B'Simcha! 
Just in case you think that Simcha is implying something here, I feel I really ought to point out that actually, as it goes, in the game of passive aggressive, I’m definitely the more passive one.
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Simcha – don’t respond to my clear provocation!
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As in, I’m very domineering and acting and my Lovely Husband is a saint just like Morris.
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That being said, as evidenced above, I still have no self control. Which actually explains a lot about me.
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What a great lesson to give a child! (And it’s still not always easy to remember when I need it!!)
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Me too!
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